Allow me to ask you a different set of questions I attempt to address in my TEDTalk, to help tease out the nature of erotic desire and its accompanying conundrums:
- Why does good sex so often fade, even in couples who continue to love each other as much as ever?
- Why does good intimacy not guarantee good sex?
- Can we want what we already have?
- Why does the transition to parenthood so often deliver a fatal erotic blow to the couple?
- And why is the forbidden so erotic?
- When you love, how do you feel, and when you desire, how is it different?
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